3 Powerful Tips for Setting Boundaries in Your Dating Life
- Decide what you want; and don’t budge – Once you decide what you want, don’t settle for something or someone else just because it or they are available. Settling for less than what you truly want is settling for less than you deserve. This is more of a boundary between you and yourself… setting boundaries with ourselves are just as important, if not more important than the boundaries we set with others. It’s important we honor our true desires and work to release any fears or limiting beliefs we have around being in the relationship we want and attracting the person we desire to be with.
- Don’t give your energy to red flags – This tip is emphasis on the ‘don’t budge’ part of the first tip… When you are aware that something or someone doesn’t meet the standards you set for yourself, stop giving your energy to that person or thing. Your energy is incredibly precious and valuable… even if the people around you won’t recognize it, it’s important you still honor your standards with yourself and be mindful of who and what your energy is spent on.
- Remember that self love comes first – Without a deep inner connection to ourselves and a true love and appreciation for solitude… we cannot truly appreciate or have a deep loving connection to others. When we don’t truly love ourselves but are dating other people… We’re looking to fill the holes of what we don’t love about ourselves with the love of others. We then look to other people for our source of happiness because we’re not content with being by ourselves. Until we remember that we have all we need within ourselves, and fall in love with ourselves again, it’s extremely hard to be in a healthy relationship that isn’t based off of infatuation and unhealthy obsession.
Stay in Alignment Throughout Your Day By Using This Powerful Technique to Lock in Your Intention
In this video Anna Pepe shares how to use this powerful technique which she channeled from her spirit guides, to lock in your intention for your day, to help you stay in alignment with your goal, to help you stay focused, and to ultimately help you create a state of being from which you manifest easily and quickly.
Use this technique every morning to set your intention and set energetic filters within your energy centers and your physical body.
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How To Get Them To Text You First
Have you ever sat down looking at your phone, waiting for that one person to text you or call you?
Wondering WHY they’re not texting or calling you?
Feeling this pit in your stomach, like something must be wrong or you must be unworthy of their attention…
I’ve been there too.
I used to OBSESS over people texting me.
I used to feel so unworthy without their validation and constant attention..
But then I learned something.
I learned true self love.
Not the happy, rainbows and sunshine self love where you love only the sparkly and shiny parts of yourself.
I’m talking about TRUE self love –
the kind when you love your mistakes.
The kind of love when you love your flaws.
The kind of love when you put yourself first.
The kind of love when you protect your energy.
The kind of love when you are in no need of any outside validation.
And once I learned that loving myself felt better than outside validation anyways –
All of that came.
People text me back effortlessly.
And in fact, I can be in a state where I think of someone for a moment and then they text or call.
It’s very easy to get into this state,
I’ll tell you how.
First, detach from the text, or the answer, or person. Make these things neutral to you, and act as if you’re observing them as you visualize them in your mind. Try not to attach emotion to your visualization.
The more attached you are to the outcome, the harder it is to attract it into your physical reality.
Let go, and trust that the universe will bring you want you ask or better.
Having the true intention to appreciate this person or add value to this person also helps you manifest their attention, where as if you’re just looking to waste someone’s time or if you’re looking to fill a void within yourself by being in their vicinity, you’re holding that person’s attention away from you.
The universe will keep throwing to you lessons that you need to learn until you learn them.
People will always ignore your texts if you always get upset that they ignore you, if you feel unworthy and are in need of validation… people can feel that energetically, and the universe by the law of attraction returns back to you the vibrations you’re putting out, which in this case would be vibrations from a lackful state.
Vibrations from a lackful state regarding people’s attention = no attention from those people.
Take your power back by letting go of the need for constant attention and validation from others.
You have all the attention of your guides and your higher self. You have the power that creates entire worlds within you.
You do not need validation from others.
You are perfect and powerful the way you are right now.
You just need to remember it.
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Why Caring What Rich People Do With Their Money Is Keeping The Money You Want From Coming
Did you saw Kylie Jenner’s new bugatti that she posted a few months ago?
Actually, you might not have seen it.
Kylie deleted the picture of her brand new bugatti, because fans were hating and complaining – saying;
“You could’ve fed so many people with that money!”
“People are homeless and children are starving.”
“You only care about yourself. I would be lucky to even have a fraction of the money it took to buy that car but I can’t even pay my bills.”
… and so much more.
What these people who are complaining about Kylie spending her money on foreign fancy cars –
What they don’t realize, is that when they’re complaining about her spending the money in a way they don’t like – they’re pushing money away from themselves.
By complaining about how Kylie is spending her money, they’re sending a signal out into the universe that translates to “I don’t like money. Being rich is bad.”
The law of attraction states that what we put out vibrationally, we get back.
The law of attraction is not a theory or a mystical power you tap into – it’s literally a law of the universe, like gravity.
And because the law of attraction is one of the laws of this universe we live in –
When people complain about how rich people spend their money, they stay where they’re at financially.
You see, you can’t just think about the subject of ‘money’ to receive more money.
How you actually FEEL when you think about the subject of money, tells you if you’re attracting money, or if you’re pushing it away from you.
With every subject in the universe, there are two ends energetically.
- The having of that thing
- The lack of that thing
Whether it’s money, health, a boyfriend, a car, your dream job…
So how do you know if you’re attracting the having of the thing, or the lack of the thing?
You know by how you feel.
If you’re feeling happy, excited, in love with money and the idea of money and more coming to you…
Then you’re attracting money.
But if you’re feeling jealous, like there isn’t enough in the world to go around, if you think or believe that money is evil, if you believe there’s never enough money, you’ve never had enough money, money is hard to get…
Then you’re attracting the lack of money.
Pay attention to how you’re feeling when you’re talking about things that are important to you!
If attracting more money and having financial freedom is important to you, don’t engage in conversations where people are judging the way others spend their money.
Instead, let the people who have already achieved financial freedom be an inspiration to you and a reminder that you CAN achieve your goals –
That if they did it – you too can have financial freedom and live a life where you live out your dreams.