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The Stunning Ria Turner Shares her Unique Perspective on Perfectionism in Our Society
Published
4 years agoon
In her first interview with Manifest Easy, Ria sheds her beautiful light on the topics of emotions, being ‘soft’ as a woman, her journey with planet medicine, and her perspective on perfectionism is that of staying true and authentic to yourself.
Ria’s Age: 26
Her Current location: Vancouver, BC, Canada
Ria’s Profession: Eyelash Extension Technician
Instagram Username: @riaturner
What makes you feel most connected to your femininity?
“I feel at my best and connected to my femininity when I am honoring myself. And by honoring myself I mean really getting into a flow state where I am slowing myself down for a little bit and listening to my body.
I feel most connected to my femininity when I allow myself to honor emotions and the thoughts that flow through me. I think it’s courageous and beautiful to be able to look inside yourself and observe whats going on.
My femininity resides in my playfulness my sensuality. My softness, and my adaptability.”
What outfit do you feel most sexy in?
” I feel most COMFORTABLE when when I am nakey nakey.
Tight pants and clothes feel like a second skin I can’t breathe in, and anything baggy gets in the way of everything. Either way both are restricting.
This question is honestly a bit hard for me to think up of an answer, but for some reason I have always loved the look of thigh high socks. With or without anything else. Maybe a toque.
Naked with socks an a toque. And hoop earrings make me feel like a bad ass bitch. Slap a spray tan on me and douse me in body shimmer and i’m feeling SO FRESH!!”
Has anyone ever judged you for showing your more feminine, emotional side? How did you deal with that?
“ALL THE TIME!! Ever since I can remember I’ve been told how much I wear my heart on my sleeve. I hear people say all the time “you’re just too sensitive” or “you need to stop being so sensitive”.
For a while I felt a lot of shame about it and those thoughts still creep up on me from time to time. Being emotional does not make you any less capable than anybody else. It shouldn’t make you less desirable than anyone else and it doesn’t make you any less strong or any less useful.
The more I have listened to other women talk about this the more I am finding strength and beauty in being able to be vulnerable and raw with myself and WITH OTHER PEOPLE.
Crying is not bad. Emotions are not bad. They just “are”.
This shouldn’t seem like a taboo thing either. Why is this something to be ashamed of when it’s literally part of our nature as human beings? If you got to let some shit out, allow it. Then we can move on – right?
I feel like crying, laughing, singing, swearing, are the bodies natural way of allowing an emotion to be released. Nobody wants to be suppressing their emotions to the point they are coming out in unhealthy ways or coming out at the wrong time.
It’s not good for your body and its not good for your mind! A therapist I was seeing a few years ago told me how emotions like anger and sadness are necessary. These powerful emotions are guiding us to make change.
Tears are healing. Tears are healthy. How do you expect to heal if you can’t allow yourself to feel? It takes strength to allow yourself to feel. I think it’s a beautiful thing and I want to thank myself for having the courage to stay soft.”
At what point in your life did you start to really step into your femininity and the divinity that comes with that?
“This probably all began after I separated from a lot of my high school acquaintances and began travelling, but has mostly become a topic of interest in the last few years.
After I started experimenting with different plant medicines, I opened up a portal within myself and have been exploring it ever since. To be honest though I have always felt like a free flowing lady and I just love feeling all up in my feminine.”
What’s your favorite self-care ritual?
“Discipline is the greatest form of self love.
I don’t think this needs much of an explanation. I heard that about a year ago and it has stuck with me since. It’s hard sometimes to say no if something is not serving your higher purpose but practicing this is super gratifying for me. I’m sure for everybody really.
One self care practice that has always been important though, is my independence. Doing things alone and immersing myself into situations and adventures alone is something my soul has always had a craving for.
There’s something about running away and spending a weekend alone, or going on a road trip alone just to spend time with myself that really resets my battery. When I come back from healing isolation with myself I can be of better service to myself and to others.
Feeling alone around large crowds of people is so liberating to me. I often find I can fall into habits of co dependency so spending time alone with myself helps me to reconnect my fire inside and relationship with myself. It feels SO GOOD to feel free!
If I am home, my ideal evening practicing self care includes dance and movement. Singing and swinging around my apartment. Lighting a stick of incense or a candle and writing in my journal. Laying down on the floor with one hand on my heart and one on my belly and listening.
When feeling stressed out I used to take my kayak out to the lake and bask in between the mountains but it is heavy as shit and now that I live in the city it doesn’t get as much love. A highway drive somewhere random with the windows down and great music blasting has always been super satisfying to me.”
What do you love most about being a woman?
“I love being a woman. Being a woman is not easy and I find so often we are struggling for our right to be assertive and to be taken seriously. It’s like we are always walking this line between feeling openly proud of who who we are and openly loving ourselves, or hiding that part of ourselves away in an effort not to offend or get a negative reaction from people.
Showing confidence and self love within yourself… saying “I AM BEAUTIFUL” too often seems to make other people uncomfortable. Men AND women alike.
But there should be no shame around this and I hope as the gears of the world keep turning women continue to rise together and fight the misogyny. Being a woman means being complex, resilient, strong, and soft all at the same time.”
What inspires your creativity most?
“I get a lot of inspiration from other people who I admire. I have a lot of friends that are extremely creative and innovative, and they are the ones who inspire me to come back to art and try new things.
Pulling inspiration from thoughtful words from my favorite authors, and minimizing on screen time helps me tap into my creativity as well.”
How do you express your creative side?
“I like expressing this through fashion, jewelry, and hair. Anything that stands out or shows a bit of sparkle or energy or something maybe a little out of the norm. I like bright colours and approachable prints. I want to be seen as a positive and approachable being. I want to feel like a safe and non judgmental space for people around me.
I find through my job I am also able to express myself creatively. Through eyelash extensions I’m able to play around with customized looks according to what my client is looking for.
Playing around with different styles and shapes to get a certain look is a lot of fun and I get to add my own flare to it.”
Women are intuitive beings by nature. What’s one instance where you’ve felt called to really tap into your intuition and listen to that voice inside of you?
“All the time… I feel like I constantly aim to trust the intuition and gut feelings I have, and I am learning that that feelings needs to be heard and it needs to be trusted. No matter how convincing the situation or individual may be. Because more often than not I find that my intuition was right all along.
I find that it’s really easy for me to put myself in other people’s shoes. To my best ability I believe that people are speaking their truth. In many situations I find myself striving to be humble and biting my tongue. But when I do not trust in myself I usually find I lead myself astray.”
Women have an intrinsic trait where we tend to avoid confrontation, and handle issues passively. Because of this, we can often manipulate the situation and get our way without fighting. What’s one time that you’ve seen this trait show through you?
“I am fully aware of how I may handle issues “passively” but that is something I try to overcome. I am working on speaking my truth, emotion aside, with a calm and level head.
I do not think conversations or emotions should be “passive”. As long as we aren’t pointing fingers and we are leaving our accusations at the door maturely, we can come to an honest solution without any heat.”
When did you really start to feel confident in yourself? Was there a specific moment or event that caused you to embrace yourself with love and step into confidence?
“I had a really powerful moment in Costa Rica alongside two powerful, amazing women. I think I was 20 or 21 and I had never even been topless in front of a friend, or even a partner. We were dancing and playing in the ocean and all let our titties out in the sunshine.
As silly as it seems, it was a massive stepping stone for me which included tears and some laughter but I will never forget that moment. It was something I had been so scared to do for so long, but put me on a path towards self acceptance. I don’t know exactly what changed from that point forward but I found confidence, love, and acceptance for who I was.
And to follow up with that memory: I have grown a lot since then and I have really gotten to love myself and accept myself the way that I am.
In December 2019 I finally got the breast augmentation I had been saving up for since 2011. I was confident in myself before and I am confident in myself today.
It was a long hard struggle to get there but to be honest, I am happy that I worked through it. I just wanted to feel more feminine, more womanly, more sensual. I wanted to have some nice soft titties that fill up a bra nicely and it’s as simple as that.”
Was there a time you ever doubted yourself? And how did you overcome your doubt?
“I still struggle with doubting myself, every day. I’m not going to lie and say I found some magical elixir that gave me eternal confidence, because I struggle every day with wondering if I am making the right decisions.
I’m always questioning myself and wondering if i am doing the right thing. I think it’s important to listen to your gut and intuition of all things, although it can be a constant battle between the head and the heart.
I think I lean a little too close to what my heart wants but as I gain more life experience I’m learning that the easy thing may not always be the right thing. And I am also trying to be super aware of myself and to no longer “bandaid” my issues and allow myself to feel through them, alone!
I know that I am an honest and positive person. I believe that as long as I am showing my true and authentic colors, whether someone likes me or not this is something that people can see beneath the surface. That’s enough for me. If not, it’s probably unlikely that they’re in my circle of friends and family – so why does it matter anyway?”
As women, we are too often told we need to change the way we look, and the media and beauty industries can pick on our insecurities. How do you like to honor your body and remind yourself how beautiful and perfect you are?
“First of all, when it comes to media, or social media, I only follow things that serve my higher purpose. What I mean by that is that I don’t put my energy into anything that makes me feel bad about myself and I only follow accounts that inspire me or educate me about the things I am interested in.
I have never understood why so many people are causing themselves unnecessary suffering by following or checking up on people from their past they don’t like.
I honor myself and my feelings by keeping real, inspirational, and educational people in my circle. Perfectionism is a personal thing. I don’t think that i strive for perfection because I don’t believe perfection should be ones goal.
What is perfect is the individuality of being your own unique self.”
What advice would you give to a young girl who isn’t confident in her body and femininity yet?
“I remember struggling with mean things other kids said to me in highschool… Those words still stick with me today – I’m not upset anymore but I don’t think I will ever forget them.
I’m more so upset at my younger self for taking them so personally like as if it was the end of the world.
At that age it kind of is your entire world because middle school and high school is such a big deal. Being surrounded and pressured by so many of your peers who had no idea how much words can hurt.
I mean, I sure didn’t. Now that I have spent time reflecting, I’m able to understand that when people say unkind things it can often stem from pain or insecurity within themselves.”
Women are naturally highly sensitive beings, and we deeply feel our emotions. How do you honor your emotions and give yourself space to feel?
“Holding space for yourself means allowing yourself to go through your emotions without judgement. Sometimes I find crying a ceremonious thing. It takes strength to be vulnerable. Otherwise these issues will just be suppressed and will produce unhealthy habits.”
As women, and divine feminine beings, we’re given the precious ability to create life. In our society, we’re told we need to be mothers and raise a family. While having the incredible ability to create life and give birth, not every woman decides to become a mom, and that’s okay. What are your thoughts on this topic? How do you feel about being able to create the most precious thing on earth – life itself?
“This is such a massive question I don’t even know if I can answer to my fullest ability..
IF I lived in another country. Or maybe on an island off the coast.
IF I did more extensive research on hypno and home birthing…
IF I got my shit together and figured out a healthy meal plan for myself and my babies = and I’m talking homegrown, mostly plant based recipes…
IF I was willing to homeschool my babies.
I know I am 100% capable of all of these things but is this really my life’s purpose?
If I was so honored to create new life I would absolutely dedicate my entire being to raising a little one.
I have already done a lot of research on home and hypno-birthing and for some reason have always found it VERY fascinating. But I would 100% put any of my ambitions aside to put my baby first and spend all my time trying to love and care of it.
I have never felt as though my life’s purpose was to be a mother as a lot of women do. But if I was in the right circumstance I think it would be a beautiful thing.
However I worry that I would love my baby so hard I would throw all my goals and aspirations out the window and would possibly find resentment in that…
But I imagine myself sometimes as a mother. I would be the best mama ever.”
The divine feminine energy within you is inherently strongly connected to nature – Mother Earth. What is your favorite way to spend time in nature and honor Mother Earth?
“Grounding; literally spreading dirt on your body and then jumping into natural water. Or hugging a big, fat, wet tree. Or laying on a big, fat, hot rock.”
As women, we are the embodiment of Divine Feminine energy, but we also have Divine Masculine energy within us. Do you often feel like you have more feminine energy than masculine, or vice versa? How does the energy that you think is most dominant within you often express itself through you?
“Although both masculine and feminine energy resides in all of us, I feel as though im very in touch with my feminine and surrendering to the flow of the universe. She expresses herself through movement, adaptability, and compassion.”
Follow Ria’s journey on Instagram: @riaturner
Anna Pepe is Editor and Creator of Manifest Easy. After learning how to properly manifest the life of her dreams, and communicate with the Universe in a productive way, Anna now has a passion for helping others to do the same. Anna is a channel, and often channels lessons from her guides regarding love, romantic and platonic relationships, abundance, money, and more. Not only does she have a passion for helping others manifest the life they desire, she also has a passion for helping people recognize that they have incredible power within them, that often lies dormant. She loves to share other people’s stories, as well as her own stories and lessons from her guides, to help as many people as possible and share as many perspectives as possible with her brand. If you have a story you’d love to share, please go to the Contact Us page, or email Anna at anna@manifesteasy.com
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Interviews
The Incredibly Wise Divine Derricka Gives Us a Great Perspective on Judgement and Positive Self-Talk
Published
4 years agoon
November 27, 2020In her first interview with Manifest Easy, the very wise and beautiful soul that is Divine Derricka shares with us a great perspective on judgement, and gives powerful examples of using positive self-talk to form a strong relationship with yourself based in unconditional love.
Divine Derricka’s Age: 23
Her Current location: California, United States
About Divine Derricka’s Profession: Derricka is an Empowerment leader and intuitive energy healer and channel. She works with people to help them reframe their mindsets + alchemize their inner worlds, remember their divinity, and their power to heal themselves + transform their lives. She is also an Artist and uses her art to activate, and uplift people’s energies.
Instagram Username: @Divine_derricka
What makes you feel most connected to your femininity?
“Dressing up, and doing my makeup really helps me tap into that feminine side.”
What outfit do you feel most sexy in?
“A bralette, some flowing goddess pants, a kimono, my snake necklace, snake sandals, my lion rings, and gold bracelet, and my chandelier earrings. Also can’t forget a full face of makeup!”
Has anyone ever judged you for showing your more feminine, emotional side? How did you deal with that?
“Yes, I’ve had a couple of people. At first it hurt my feelings, but after doing some healing I realized it was because I myself used to judge this part of myself. Once I healed that relationship, I stopped attracting people that judged me for that.”
At what point in your life did you start to really step into your femininity and the divinity that comes with that?
“Actually at this point right now. I feel more connected to this aspect of myself than I ever have before.”
What’s your favorite self-care ritual?
“Definitely giving love to my physical body. Whether that’s through self pleasure, rubbing myself down with oils, doing my nails and hair, and taking reiki infused baths.”
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What do you love most about being a woman?
“Ahh so many things! Being a woman is amazing. But I’d say how intuitive we are, and that we are powerfully connected to the realms of the unseen, and magick.”
What inspires your creativity most?
“Being outside in nature always sparks my creative fire.”
How do you express your creative side?
“Through doing my makeup and taking pictures, writing poetry, drawing, and cooking.”
Women are intuitive beings by nature. What’s one instance where you’ve felt called to really tap into your intuition and listen to that voice inside of you?
“When I was ending a karmic relationship. I had to really ask myself from a deeper place, “is this healthy for me?” And it led me to letting go of something that wasn’t serving me anymore.”
Women have an intrinsic trait where we tend to avoid confrontation, and handle issues passively. Because of this, we can often manipulate the situation and get our way without fighting. What’s one time that you’ve seen this trait show through you?
“It was with my sister. We’d sometimes bump heads about how [to do] certain things. But instead of me fighting about it, I’d suggest going to get some food and that I’d pay for gas. I knew what to say, and how she’d react to avoid it turning into a bigger problem.”
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When did you really start to feel confident in yourself? Was there a specific moment or event that caused you to embrace yourself with love and step into confidence?
“It was another romantic situation. I had fallen for someone that didn’t feel the same way, and he mentioned some traits about myself that I needed to look at.
That moment sparked me to look deeper at not only my shadow, but my light. I started to embrace what was within, what I had to offer to the world.
It made me realize I don’t have to chase anyone or anything, but simply be as I am. And that She is enough. Once I did that I started to feel better about myself, and it was genuine confidence that emerged.”
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Was there a time you ever doubted yourself? And how did you overcome your doubt?
“Oh yes, many times actually. One was when I started to really express my gifts to the world. I doubted if I was all that I felt I was. I doubted if I’d actually make a difference in people’s lives.
But the way I overcame it was when I went into the part of myself that was doubtful, I spoke to her and we had a honest conversation. I reminded her that we have what it takes, and that we were born with these specific gifts for a reason.
It took time but the doubt started to ease up. But in my moments of doubt, prayer also is my go to.”
As women, we are too often told we need to change the way we look, and the media and beauty industries can pick on our insecurities. How do you like to honor your body and remind yourself how beautiful and perfect you are?
“I write love letters to myself. I also sit in front of the mirror naked and speak out loud how beautiful I am. I speak to every part that I ever felt self conscious about, and I shower it with love. I also thank my body for all the work it does. Gratitude has shifted my self worth in major ways.”
What advice would you give to a young girl who isn’t confident in her body and femininity yet?
“Don’t ever compare yourself to another for you are absolutely perfect as you are. No one else in the world could do what you are meant to, or be you. Your uniqueness is what makes you special.
The Divine made you exactly the way you were meant to be for a reason. Within you is an infinite source of beauty, wisdom, love power, and potential. You carry the codes of the women that have gone before you, and they are guiding you every step of the way.
You are never alone in what you feel. You are valid, you are worthy of all of your hearts dreams and desires. You don’t ever have to chase love, or validation because your worth was already set before you came into physical form. You could never be without love because it’s what you are.
Honor what it means to be a woman, and celebrate yourself throughout all moments because you deserve to be celebrated. Remember you are loved unconditionally forever, and always.”
Women are naturally highly sensitive beings, and we deeply feel our emotions. How do you honor your emotions and give yourself space to feel?
“I make sure that I always have a private space I can go to and be alone with the divine, and myself. In that space I’ll write about my feelings, I’ll cry and release, I’ll scream, dance, I do whatever is needed to let the emotions move through me. I also remind myself that it’s okay to feel what I feel.”
As women, and divine feminine beings, we’re given the precious ability to create life. In our society, we’re told we need to be mothers and raise a family. While having the incredible ability to create life and give birth, not every woman decides to become a mom, and that’s okay. What are your thoughts on this topic? How do you feel about being able to create the most precious thing on earth – life itself?
“I feel every woman regardless if they choose to be a mother or not, have the divine mother codes within them. It’s not just birthing a physical child, but maybe a creative project, or something you’re manifesting.
We have this powerful ability to breathe life into anything around us. That could be our love life, ourselves, our friendships, our career. All of that is tied to our feminine ability to create life, and nurture life.
I do feel that we should be more respectful to women who consciously choose not to be mothers. It doesn’t make them any less of a woman.
But for me, I do know I want to and will be a mother to physical children. I think it’s so beautiful that women have this ability to bring spirit into human form. It’s powerful to witness what women go through, and their ability to literally carry life within them.
How they were designed with everything they needed to make this happen. When I think about what I’m capable of as a woman in birthing life, it’s a power I can’t fully describe into words. It’s an ancient remembrance for sure.”
The divine feminine energy within you is inherently strongly connected to nature – Mother Earth. What is your favorite way to spend time in nature and honor Mother Earth?
“I love just being present in nature. Putting my feet on the grass, feeling the pulse of Mother Earth beneath my feet, listening to the birds, feeling the wind, the sun. Experiencing her with all my senses. I love to speak with the spirits of the earth, sing to them, dance with them, and just sit with them having conversations. I also love to leave offerings for Mother Earth. I’ll leave her flowers, or I’ll send her reiki.”
As women, we are the embodiment of Divine Feminine energy, but we also have Divine Masculine energy within us. Do you often feel like you have more feminine energy than masculine, or vice versa? How does the energy that you think is most dominant within you often express itself through you?
“I used to definitely be more in masculine side, but now I feel my feminine is much more dominant. It shows up in my ability to communicate easily with The Divine, and be a channel and vessels for it to express itself through me. Also my ability to be unconditionally loving to everyone.”
Follow Divine Derricka’s journey on Instagram: @Divine_derricka
In his first interview with Manifest Easy, music artist AIRPORTS (aka Aaron Lee) gives us an exclusive look inside his mind, talks about his experiences growing up, and tells us how he’s manifested many things like financial freedom… Aaron also shares his practical technique that you can apply today to manifest anything.
Aaron Lee is a full time music artist and business owner native to Australia. He currently resides near Sydney, and is quickly gaining popularity worldwide from his music. Make sure you follow him on Instagram so you never miss out on new music (and you can stalk his page for all the awesome records he’s already dropped)! @airportsmusic
Aaron, what inspired you to become a music artist and producer?
“My dad is a musician, so I grew up around it. The first time I got to sing on stage was when I was 4 – I just got addicted to it! Being a Leo, I loved the attention haha.”
When you first decided to go full time as an artist and producer, did you have any fears or doubts? How did you overcome them?
I knew during my schooling years it was what I was going to do with my life, so against popular opinion I focused all my time into learning to write and produce music instead of studying.
Although I’m a pop singer now, I went straight into the DJ scene right after high school and started touring clubs. It was always scary because like most dream careers, it doesn’t come with an immediate financial return.
I learned a lot of hard lessons and was broke for many years.. but because of that I now have my own music business and get to work on my own artist project (AIRPORTS) – things are really good! Most importantly, I’m happy.
What is your biggest goal with your career?
“Innovate Music, Influence popular culture & save lives. I have “Innovate Influence Save” tattooed on my arm. Ultimate manifestation!!”
Photo by Trystin Sinnott @trystinsinnott and Emma Corrigan @emma.corrigan
Who inspires you to dream bigger and go beyond what others around you may think is possible?
“At the moment it’s Gary Vee, a must listen for anyone with ambition…. Many various artists and trend setters in pop culture – Kanye has been one of them long term… And my late mother, because she would never settle until she had her way! Haha.”
Your most recent music video project, called ‘U FEEL IT 2’ – which I had the honor of being in, thank you very much!! – was very inspiring in itself and connected people from all over the world with their common thoughts, feelings, and even fears. What inspired you to write this song and create such a meaningful and heartfelt video project for it?
“Thank you for being in it for real! I loved your answers so much! The song was written as a duality – it can be interpreted as a love song or a song about a relationship with a vice.
I wanted the video to reflect this but also during global isolation, I wanted it to show that we are all dealing with the same passions and fears and are still connected in knowing that.”
Click Here to watch the U FEEL IT 2 music video
Photo by Trystin Sinnott @trystinsinnott and Emma Corrigan @emma.corrigan
What makes you feel most powerful?
“Having a voice, having empathy, self awareness.. but most of all having loved ones around me that understand me.”
When you feel overwhelmed with creating, how do you snap yourself out of it and change your state of being?
“I have to take mental breaks, reconnect with loved ones, have deep conversations too. I should reconnect with the earth (outdoors) more, but need to work on that.”
If you were to pinpoint one trait or thing about yourself and amplify x1000 it to be your superhuman power, what would it be and why?
“Self-Awareness. I believe if everyone was more self aware, it would breed more empathy, that would change the world and better humanity.”
Photo by Nathan Sinnott @nathan.sinnott
Carousel also featuring photos by Jake Percey @jakepercey
“Your dance music is so fun to listen to and always gives a fresh take on the latest hits!! What’s your favorite remix that you’ve created so far?“
Oh thank you! So besides being an artist, I have my own music company that specialises in music for Dance (choreography). Honestly I’ve done so many mixes I can’t pick a fav, but my recent Billie Eilish mix has gone really well. You can hear it on @aaronleeworldwide
How did you get started remixing music specifically for dancers and dance studios?
“I was recommended as a music producer some years ago to an Australian dance company that was doing their first tour. I got to grow with them and the demand spread from there. I fell into that, very grateful I did. It’s such a fun community to be part of.”
Photo by Alii May @aliimayphotography
You’re about to launch a podcast I’ve heard! What’s your podcast all about and what inspired you to start one?
“I am! It’s called The Human Things Podcast with AIRPORTS. I wanted to take listeners on the journey with me – not just through my music career but I wanted a platform to talk through some of my life experiences such as having two life threatening illnesses, my journey through mental health, self development and [my] spiritual journey – including leaving an ‘unclassified cult’ – haha!
I’m not into solo vlogs so I got one of my best mates, Bryce, to co-host it with me.
The first season drops soon on most streaming platforms such as Spotify. Episodes will be fortnightly to start with.”
Follow @airportsmusic on Instagram for updates on when his podcast episodes will be up!
You’ve overcome many things including rare diseases.. What was one thing that kept you going and kept you faithful to your beliefs and your worth during that difficult time?
“The fact that I knew I was made to do more. Having a purpose.”
What’s your favorite thing that you’ve manifested into your life so far?
“There are a few… overcoming some life threatening illnesses – being able to function and do what I love.
Entertain my entrepreneurial side an create a company – the music for dance [that I] previously mentioned – that allows me the freedom to invest into my #1 goal – AIRPORTS.
Freedom from anxiety and trauma through attracting the right people with the right forms of self development & treatment.
And my wonderful girlfriend!”
Do you have a manifestation technique or ritual that you do specifically when you want to call something new into your reality?“
“It’s really simple.. I obsess over it in an excited way, I know and believe a way will reveal itself, and I take action to get there. It always works, sometimes quicker, sometimes longer than we expect.”
Photo by Sean Higgins @shotography
Let’s get a little vulnerable here… what’s one limiting belief that you have about success that you’ve either overcome already, or are working to overcome?
“That I am not succeeding quick enough and missing opportunities or being overlooked. But I am learning to accept what’s given to me and operate from peace and clarity as opposed to desperation. Desperation always leads to wrong decisions.”
What’s one thing that most people don’t know about you?
“I can’t swim but have grown up and still live right next to the beach! Haha”
Photo by Sean Higgins @shotography
What’s the best advice you have right now for someone who wants to do music for a living, or even just their passion for a living, but doesn’t know how to start?
“If it’s what’s going to ultimately make you happy – do it and don’t listen to the naysayers. Work overtime to learn anything that makes you excited, reach out to people and learn from them and collaborate.
Put yourself around the right circle of people who will help you grow in the direction you want. And again, only do what makes you HAPPY.”
Who do you want to be remembered as?
“That I helped many people and gave them awesome music.”
Follow AIRPORT’s journey on Instagram: @airportsmusic
Interviews
Britt is a Walking Ray of Sunshine, Spreading Body Positivity and Self-Acceptance
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4 years agoon
July 1, 2020In her first interview with Manifest Easy, walking ray of sunshine Britt talks about all things body positivity and trusting in God!
Britt’s Age: 22
Her Current location: United Kingdom
Britt’s Profession: Legal Assistant
Instagram Username: @Itsbritsway and @notbeingeve
What’s your dream in life? Tell us alllll about it!
“To help people find peace in who they are in a world that is constantly telling you, ‘you are not enough’.”
Who or what makes you feel like you can accomplish anything, even your wildest dreams?
“God, I am very faith based and draw a lot of courage from it, I believe I can do anything because God told me I could.”
What was the biggest lesson for you in your life so far? How did this lesson shape you into the amazing person that you are today?
“Realising I am worthy and enough right now, without losing weight, without earning more money, just me here and now as I am.”
If you were to pinpoint one trait or thing about yourself and amplify x1000 it to be your superhuman power, what would it be and why?
“Being a blessing to others, I think you reap so much back when you help others – more than you ever thought possible – being good to people and treating them with respect is everything and to be honest… what goes around comes around!”
Let’s say, your own personal magical fairy godmother has just appeared in front of you. You have an infinite amount of wishes to create the life of your dreams. What does the life you create look like?
“Quite, peaceful, filled with true friends and simplicity pleasure in life – like picnics, bowling, silly stuff really. Just a wholesome humble lifestyle where we were all truly happy outside society’s standards of success – oh and 5 children, to be married to my boyfriend, and a beautiful house we could host parties in – although it doesn’t have to be fancy.”
What’s something you’ve felt or feel proud of recently?
“Myself – I often don’t take much time to pause and look back on what I have accomplished, how far I’ve come, I always have goals in my head and I keep pushing forward, but it’s also good to be mindful and present in what is now.”
What is your favorite way to spend time with the people you love?
“Sat down with Chinese [food], all the shnacky snacks and a good movie (if it’s scary) I need to be sat in the middle with everyone bunched around me and even then, I can’t promise I won’t scare you by screaming!!”
What is your “happy place”?
“My happy place is outside on my balcony, in a comfy bean bag with a peppermint tea, some chocolate, cozy blanket and either my Mrs. Hinch book or the Bible.”
What’s your favorite book that you’ve read or are reading?
“Body positivity by Megan Crabbe aka @Bodyposipanda“
What’s a cause that is important to you?
“Body acceptance and self love.”
What’s your favorite thing that you’ve manifested into your life so far?
“I lost my position at a firm I was working at a couple of years ago, it felt like my world came crashing down… I had no clue what to do and genuinely never felt so depressed.
I was praying for another job and that it would come along soon – I went to 3 interviews with no luck and honestly felt like giving up. Another interview opportunity came along but it was a long commute and I nearly didn’t go to it…
It turns out that I got that same job, it was a top law firm and one [of the] people dreamed of working for, better than any of the others I had applied to.
Eventually we moved closer to the position and my partner also achieved a job at the firm too, it’s meant that we now circulate in a higher level of law firms with better opportunities… It’s funny because what I saw as my worst time ever, God made good and gave me the boost in life I needed. The power of prayer is huge and if you just believe and wait patiently, comes true!”
What makes you smile the most?
“Nature, I feel so calm and peaceful and it makes me feel whole and complete.”
What’s something that you love about yourself?
“That I don’t take myself too seriously.”
What’s one thing that most people don’t know about you?
“I was a championship dancer, up to the age of 18!”
How would you define yourself using only three words?
“Open, loving, sassy.”
What’s inspiring you in your life currently?
“The word of God – I’ve been reading the Bible a lot in these times and just finding so many answers and so much gold, it inspired me to set up a second Instagram page, @NotBeingEve, all about the struggles and taboo subjects of a modern day Christian woman, new to her faith.”
What’s the best advice you’ve ever recieved?
“When you fall down, get back up again.”
Follow Britt’s journey on Instagram: @Itsbritsway and @notbeingeve